Stuck in a Bad Job? Here are 5 Good Things You Can Still Get Out Of It

I really hope I’m wrong, but it seems like everyone at some point has come to the sudden realization that they hate their job. I know people who still technically love what they do, but the current incarnation of their dream gig is just BAD.

Lots of different factors can make a “good on paper” job go south of cheese: crazy leadership, incompetent management, slacker colleagues, lack of resources, too much work, not enough work… When the dial moves from “things could be better” to “I hate my life,” it’s time to start crafting your exit strategy.

It can take a while–sometimes months–to lock down a new position, which means you may find yourself stuck in a bad job for longer than you think. Not to get all Pollyanna, but you can actually learn a lot during this trying time.

Here’s a roundup of 5 good things you can get out of a bad job:

1. A Game Face

You may have a solid case in a workplace disagreement, but if you come at your boss or colleagues like a raving lunatic, they’re going to pay more attention to the steam coming out of your ears than the words coming out of your mouth. Dealing with confrontation without emotion is difficult and takes a lot of practice, but it’s such a valuable skill. It makes you look like a pro and can help create an environment that’s more conducive to problem solving. And a crappy job with lots of issues is good training ground.

2. A Vision of the Boss You Want to Be

Smart, creative, humble bosses are great teachers of leadership skills, but I’d argue that stupid, mean egomaniacs are even better. If your boss is a total troll, learn from their mistakes. Pretend you’re collecting data on some creature in captivity and really analyze what makes them so horrible to work for. Flip it and reverse it, and you’ll have a manual for being the best boss ever.

3. Solid Questions for Your next Job Interview.

Before any job interview, you always prepare that list of questions that shows you’ve done your homework. Ask those standard questions, for sure. But also use the time toward the end of the interview to investigate your next potential workplace. Thanks to your horrible manager and jackass coworkers, you know EXACTLY what your deal breakers are.  Ask about culture, workload, management style, and anything else that’s been making your life a living hell.

4. How to Prioritize and Accept “Good Enough”

This one’s for the ninjas who face unrealistic to-dos and deadlines. And zero support. The upside of being constantly swamped is that you get really good at identifying what’s really, truly urgent. You also learn when to say “when” on projects that you could, if it were up to you, spend weeks getting just right. This is a hard lesson for anyone who values craftsmanship, but the reality is that sometimes you have to accept output that’s “good enough” because you have approximately 1 million other tasks to complete.

5. A Free Pass for Your Crazy Idea

This one’s a little risky and should be reserved for when you are truly, honestly at your wit’s end and have nothing left to lose. Maybe you’re pretty sure you’re going to get fired. Maybe you’re hoping they’ll fire you and put you out of your misery. Is there one crazy/potentially revolutionary idea that’s been rattling around your brain? Maybe you haven’t shared it because it’s radical and will likely piss off 50% of your office. DO IT! Why not? You have one foot out the door anyway. Maybe it’ll turn everything around. Worst case scenario: you’ll go out in a blaze of glory.

To quote Ovid, “Be patient and tough; one day this pain will be useful to you.” A bad job sucks, but you WILL learn something from it. And chances are that whatever you learn will help you find a much, much better job the next time around.

Ever have a bad job? What did you learn?

Jenessa Connor

Jenessa is a Brooklyn-based freelance writer and young adult author. She received her on-the-job office ninja training through various marketing and communications roles in startups and small nonprofit organizations. She’s passionate about problem-solving and loves finding new ways to increase office productivity and creativity. If you don’t find her in front of her computer, check the local movie theaters and restaurants, Prospect Park or the gym at CrossFit 718.

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  1. Tiffany
     

    This was on point. Thanks.

    1. jenessaconnor
       

      Thanks for reading, Tiffany!

  2. Jackie
     

    I enjoy the picture. It speaks volumes; professionally and personally.

    1. jenessaconnor
       

      That pug really gets it :) Thanks so much for reading, Jackie!

  3. sixdegreesofstoogeration
     

    This is what I would show to those who are always braying (yes, I said “braying”) about finding your passion, passionate (insert whatever popular term currently used here).

    I worked for a former concert pianist. Whenever he’d mention this fact, people’s eyes would light up. “Oh, it must’ve been soooo glamorous!” “Oooh, wasn’t that fun?” and my favorite, “I bet that didn’t seem like work at all!”

    He’d smile, say the same canned speech about glamor, drop a couple of famous names, and the listeners would leave, glowing in the glowy glow of “glamor.” What he WOULDN’T tell them:

    1. The time he played the wrong program. He had A, B, C, etc., programs for certain venues. For some reason, he played the A program for the C audience. The critics noticed, but they didn’t knock him for it.

    2. The time he had a late flight and had to go straight from the airport to the concert hall without eating. (What, they didn’t have food on 1960s airplanes?) All through the concert, he kept thinking about “Steak, steak and more steak!”

    3. Many more non-glamorous stories about traveling the world.

    Why do I mention this? Because of the many, many, many! articles about finding your passion, mojo, etc. They seem to think that everyday is going to be sunshine, puppies, and kittens. ANY job, no matter how “glamorous” will be just that. A job.

    You will not always have passion for your job, you will not always love (or even like) your job. You may hate your job. But there’s always something (even if it’s fleeting!) you’ll like.

    Thanks for the article!

    1. jenessaconnor
       

      Yep, not every job is the dream job! Thanks for your comment.

  4. Tiffany
     

    LOVED this read. Thanks for posting!

    1. jenessaconnor
       

      So happy you enjoyed the article, Tiffany! Thanks for reading and commenting!

  5. Tana
     

    Thanks for a few more useful ideas – working for city government is at times highly entertaining and stressful.

    1. jenessaconnor
       

      I can only imagine, Tana! Thanks for reading!

  6. MJ
     

    Great points. Thanks for posting

    1. jenessaconnor
       

      Thanks for reading and commenting, MJ!

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